Listening
When you become a parent your life is immediately thrust into the realm of all sorts of new and arresting noises. I vividly remember the first few days home with our first born and basically waking up every time she whimpered or even stirred. These were new noises and I wasn't exactly sure how I was supposed to respond to them. The regular crying for food and for changing took weeks getting used to. As my children grow older the noises change in their dynamic but not in their frequency. Instead of crying to be changed or to be held there is now the onslaught of almost constant chatter - What's for supper? Can I go to a friend's house to play? She took the toy from me! Is the moon really made of cheese? It's my turn! Mom and dad, I aced my test today in school! But I don't want to go to bed yet, I'm not tired! I always wondered how parents could seemingly tune out the chaos of their children when everyone else in the room was obviously affected by it, and now...